Saturday, January 31, 2015

17 weeks!



How far along? 17 weeks
Baby is the size of an: Onion, about 5 inches long and 5 ounces 
Total weight gain: 8.5 pounds! Eeek! But totally within normal range at this point. 
Stretch marks? Just the one on my boob!
Maternity clothes? I'm wearing my belly band on a daily basis and it's getting pretty annoying. My pants are starting to fit a little too snug even with the band, so it's definitely time for some comfy maternity pants! 
Sleep: Still only getting up once to go pee, but tossing and turning so much that my sleep is getting interrupted from changing positions so much. 
Best moment this week: Finding out the gender! I'll write more down below! 
Miss anything? My favorite beer.... Dos Equis. Soon enough.... 
Food cravings: Nothing new this week! Just hungry all the damn time.
Anything making you queasy or sick? Nope! 
Gender: BOY!!!!! 
Labor signs: Hopefully not for a very long time! 
Symptoms: Peeing and hungry all the time, gassy, occasional headaches which are probably work related- not baby related, I've started getting sharp jabbing pains in my lower abdomen. Like low low pelvic area. Use your imagination. They hurt and pretty much stop me in my tracks. The nurse practitioner at my OB GYN's office didn't seem too concerned by them and just said to drink more water, which I already drink a ton of, and to get a belly support belt. 
Belly button in or out?  In.
Wedding rings on or off: On.
Happy or moody most of the time: Happy.... And my sassyness has gone up a notch this week. Baby is giving me less of a filter this week. 
Looking forward to: Feeling movement! 

This was the most exciting week yet. Last Friday we had our 3D/4D ultrasound done and found out we're having a boy!!! Our parents, my sister and brother in law all went with us and because Chris' brother and fiancĂ© are in Texas, we face timed them so they could find out with us! As soon as his goods showed up on the screen I blurted out, "It's a Boy!!" I instantly started crying. It was so emotional and amazing to know what our little miracle is. We've had a boy name picked out for years so it wasn't hard to figure out what his name was going to be. It's nice to finally call baby by his name, Caleb, rather than 'it' or 'baby', although I still catch myself reverting back to those. 



After the ultrasound we all went to lunch and then to Buy Buy Baby to do some browsing. Naturally, Chris and I had to buy something..... So we splurged and bought a 4Moms Mommaroo. It's amazing and I wish they made one for adults! 



We also had a prenatal appointment this week, where we met with the nurse practitioner because my OB GYN wasn't in. She was very thorough and went through quite a bit of information with us. We heard Caleb's heartbeat and it was a strong 148 bpm. I've gained a total of 8.5 pounds so far, which is totally within the normal range of 5-10 pounds by this point. I try to eat as healthy as I can, but sometimes Caleb wants a Veggie Works burrito from Del Taco and that's what he gets. Meat or leftovers don't always sound the greatest. I'm drinking well over 72 ounces of water a day and peeing all the time as a result. Sometimes I can't get enough ice cold water. 

At our appointment, we got our orders for the anatomy ultrasound and fetal echocardiogram. The anatomy ultrasound will be February 20th and should take about an hour. Our fetal echocardiogram is scheduled for March 3rd and will take about 2 hours. They're going to monitor and look in depth at Caleb's heart to check for any abnormalities. According to Dr. Norian and my OB GYN, babies conceived via IVF have a slightly higher risk of heart abnormalities and no one really knows why. 

Chris and I are such planners that we've already started working on the nursery. We have paint picked out and a basic idea of what color schemes we're going to use to decorate. I'm not set on a theme and don't really want one. I'm not into super baby themed nurseries with animals, planes or trucks. So we'll see what we come up with and what the final outcome will be!

 

By the way, my belly feels large and in charge this week. Caleb is definitely making his presence known and growing! I still haven't felt any movement yet though! 

Alissha 

Friday, January 23, 2015

16 Weeks


How far along? 16 weeks
Baby is the size of a: Avocado
Total weight gain: 4 pounds
Stretch marks? Just the one on my boob!
Maternity clothes? If my belly band counts, then yes. 
Sleep: Still only getting up once to go pee and still tossing and turning.
Best moment this week: Last Saturday Chris and I had a much needed date day/night. We saw American Sniper and then had a delicious dinner at Sayaka's!
Miss anything? Not this week!
Food cravings: Nothing new this week! Claussen Pickles are still delicious. 
Anything making you queasy or sick? Nope! 
Gender: We find out today!! Eeeek!!
Labor signs: Hopefully not for a very long time! 
Symptoms: Peeing and hungry all the time, gassy, still getting those sharp pains inside my hip bones if I get up too fast, turn a certain way or sneeze hard and my back has started to hurt during the day. 
Belly button in or out?  In.
Wedding rings on or off: On.
Happy or moody most of the time: Happy.... With a little bit of sassyness.
Looking forward to: Finding out what Baby B is today!! We are so freaking excited to know what this little miracle is!!

Alissha 

Saturday, January 17, 2015

15 weeks


How far along? 15 weeks
Baby is the size of a: Navel Orange
Total weight gain: 4 pounds
Stretch marks? Just the one on my boob!
Maternity clothes? If my belly band counts, then yes. 
Sleep: Still only getting up once to go pee, but I'm definitely tossing and turning more this week. 
Best moment this week: Finding out the biopsy taken from my left tonsil came back benign! All is well. 
Miss anything? Definitely sushi...
Food cravings: I haven't had any legit cravings so far, only things that sound  good. Towards the end of this week my appetite has started to go away and nothing sounds good to eat. 
Anything making you queasy or sick? Nope! 
Gender: We find out next Friday!! 
Labor signs: Hopefully not for a very long time! 
Symptoms: Peeing all the time, gassy, burpy, still getting those sharp pains inside my hip bones if I get up too fast, turn a certain way or sneeze hard and my back has started to hurt during the day. Last Sunday, at church we had to leave early because I thought I was going to pass out. Out of nowhere I broke out in a sweat all over my body and felt super dizzy. As soon as we walked outside and I got some cool air I felt better though. 
Belly button in or out?  In.
Wedding rings on or off: On.
Happy or moody most of the time: Happy.... With a little bit of sassyness.
Looking forward to: Our gender ultrasound next Friday! I'm so anxious to find out what this little nugget is! 

Alissha 

Saturday, January 10, 2015

14 Weeks


How far along? 14 weeks!! Officially in the 2nd Trimester! 
Baby is the size of a: Lemon
Total weight gain: 4 pounds
Stretch marks? Just the one on my boob!
Maternity clothes? No, but my jeans are getting pretty snug around my waist. 
Sleep: Pretty decent, only waking up to go pee!
Best moment this week: Finally being out of the 1st Trimester.
Miss anything? Nope!
Food cravings: Hot wings, fresh fruit smoothies, V8 tomato juice, still loving pickles and cereal.
Anything making you queasy or sick? Nope! 
Gender: No idea! I really want a boy, so it's probably a girl! 
Labor signs: Hopefully not for a very long time! 
Symptoms: I'm definitely peeing a lot more this week, hungry all the time- I can't get enough snacks throughout the day, gassy, burpy, still getting those sharp pains inside my hip bones if I get up too fast, turn a certain way or sneeze hard and my back has started to hurt if I lay certain ways. 
Belly button in or out?  In.
Wedding rings on or off: On.
Happy or moody most of the time: Happy this week! 
Looking forward to: Finding out the gender on the 23rd!!!

Alissha 

Saturday, January 3, 2015

13 weeks

How far along? 13 weeks!!
Baby is the size of a: Peach
Total weight gain: 4 pounds
Stretch marks? Just the one on my boob!
Maternity clothes?  No, but my jeans are getting pretty snug around my waist. 
Sleep: Pretty decent this week, only waking up to go pee!
Best moment this week: Seeing our baby on the 31st! 
Miss anything? Nope!
Food cravings: My normal appetite is starting to come back, so fresh fruit and veggies have been on my list. Fresh fruit smoothies, V8 tomato juice, still loving pickles and cereal.
Anything making you queasy or sick? Nope! I'm so thankful that baby has treated me well and not given me horrible morning sickness. I've felt nauseous less than a handful of times. 
Gender: No idea! I really want a boy, so it's probably a girl! 
Labor signs: Hopefully not for a very long time! 
Symptoms: Hungry, bloated, gassy, burpy, still getting those sharp pains inside my hip bones if I get up too fast, turn a certain way or sneeze hard and my back has started to hurt if I lay certain ways. 
Belly button in or out?  In.
Wedding rings on or off: On.
Happy or moody most of the time: A mixture of both, but I have been getting pretty snappy lately. 
Looking forward to: Finding out the gender on the 23rd!!!

I feel like so much has happened this week. First off, Happy New Year! Thank God 2014 is over and we're turning a new page. 2014 was probably, by far, one of the most emotionally draining and stressful years for us as a couple and individually. We realized how strong we are, recognized our weaknesses and dealt with some pretty tough things in 2014. While 2014 brought us the biggest blessing ever, we are happy so say good riddance to 2014 and move forward. 2015 is going to be an amazing year filled with many more blessings and we cannot wait! 

On Wednesday, I had two doctor's appointments and thankfully Chris was able to go to both with me! My first appointment was with an Ear, Nose and Throat doctor to have a lump I've had on my left tonsil looked at. My left tonsil has been enlarged for over a year and I've seen my regular doctor for it. We thought it may be enlarged due to the sinus infections I was getting, so I went on a couple of rounds of antibiotics in January 2014. They didn't help the lump and since it didn't hurt and wasn't causing any difficulty swallowing or anything, I kind of just ignored it. Well, over the last month it started to change. I decided I needed to see an ENT and have it looked at, especially since I'm pregnant. I'll leave out the gory details and pictures, but it turned out to be a cyst on my tonsil. The ENT doctor drained it and sent a sample to pathology to make sure there's nothing else going on. My tonsil went down significantly and didn't even hurt afterwards. Maybe I have a high pain tolerance. I go back in 2 weeks for a follow up to make sure all is well. There is a chance the cyst could come back and if it does, it'll get drained again. If it becomes bothersome, I may need a tonsillectomy after baby comes. 

My second appointment was with my OB GYN. It was my first pre-natal appointment with him and I assumed all that would be done was a pelvic exam and the doppler to hear the baby's heart beat since the receptionist told me they wouldn't do an ultrasound. Well my doctor definitely did the pelvic exam, gave me orders for blood work and then told me he was going to do an ultrasound! We were so excited and I was so thankful Chris was able to make it. The last time we saw baby was at 10 weeks and my has it grown since! It looks like a baby and not a gummy bear! The doctor tried doing vaginal ultrasound, but the pictures weren't that great so I had my first ultrasound done on my belly. Baby was moving around sooooo much it was hard for the doctor to get the heartbeat. When he did, baby's heart beat was 153 which has gone down since 10 weeks when it was 161. We were able to see baby's spine and developed arms and legs. It's hard to believe it's only about 3 inches long and almost fully developed. During the ultrasound it looked like baby was sucking it's thumb already. It was truly amazing. 



Another thing we talked about at my appointment, and Chris and I have talked about since we found out we were expecting, is pre-natal screenings for genetic abnormalities and disorders. When we were with Dr. Norian he wanted us to get the Panorama Screening done to test for things such as Down Syndrome, Spina Bifida and Trisomy 13 and we decided not to. My OB GYN also talked to us about these tests and we have opted not to do these tests for several reasons. The first being that these tests are not 100% accurate and could give you a false positive. Second, Chris and I have no family history of birth defects or genetic abnormalities and we had genetic screening done on us prior to starting IVF. We are not carriers for the same recessive genes which pretty much guarantees our children will not have those specified disorders. And the last and most important reason for us is that we tried for so long to have this little blessing, that no matter what we will love it and care for it. If the screenings came back with abnormalities, so what. We do not believe in aborting the pregnancy just because there "may" be an abnormality. A life is a life and we will love our baby no matter what. 

My next pre-natal appointment is on January 29th. I think my OB-GYN said I'll see him every 2 weeks in my 2nd trimester and then once a week in my 3rd trimester.  Around the 20 week mark, I'll have the anatomy ultrasound done and a test done on the baby's heart. My doctor said studies have shown that baby's conceived via IVF have a slightly higher chance of having abnormalities with their heart. I don't really know why and my doctor didn't give an explanation. So, that's the latest and greatest! My energy is starting to come back so now I have no excuse to not be active and go to the gym more often! 

Alissha